the.spark

"...

Anyone who is observant, who discovers the person they have always dreamed of, knows that sexual energy comes into play before sex even takes place. The greatest pleasure isn't sex, but the passion with which it is practised. When the passion is intense, the sex joins in to complete the dance, but it is never the principal aim..

Anyone who is in love is making love the whole time, even when they are not. When two bodies meet, it is just the cup overflowing. They can stay together for hours, even days.

..."-somewhere

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as many out there would agree w me, its never all abt sex when it comes to the basis of the underlying interaction between the opposite sex.

for me, its also abt how much the other party is able to complement u in ways tt u can never fathom yrself of having to achieve.

its abt sharing the same sets of values and attitudes, yet, having different senses of methods of needs and wants, which may drive the two of u to enroucarge each other to greater heights.

filling the void, where he/she becomes yr best friend and your ultimate confidante, someone u can talk to abt everythin, without ever need to restraint any hues of truth.

the idea of opposites attract. initally, well it does, but at the end of the day, u want things to go in sync in regards of one another. thats where ull see how far can the two ppl can accomodate each other. being too opposite with the other, as ive found out, may bring u the intrigue and mystery to kick things off, then after tt what? those sparks, if not handled with patience and utmost finesse, may juz be turn to the biggest inferno to burn thyselves.

at the end of the day, its abt how the presence of the other bring an undescribable sense of bliss, which convinces u enuf to work hard to make it all work, n to set aside irritating differences, till the end of yr days.

sex is only just a by-line product of it all.

;)