left.or.right

"in communication, it's not just the words that count, it is also
WHAT IS IN YOUR HEAD."

"we choose what to notice."

excerpts/extracts on what i saw during a lecture. Mastering Communication.
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there is an issue which has been bugging me since last week.

but, i cant put the words describing it, or exactly what.

all i noe is, i dont feel right. oh no. not at all.

i can choose to ignore it, and be nonchalant, (which i have a right to, of coz, and also of the fact that i know absolutely, i am not the cause of it)

or i can choose to pursue it and settle it amicably, or, sign off with a proper closure, whichever way it would be bring. be it negative, or positive.

oh. if i am how i was like last time, definitely, i would be the emotional wreck, and a big hoo-haa would defintely ensue.

but im not.

and looking at the calm surface, or rather cold quietness of things, the chances of me reacting the way im expected to, would be rather slim.

in other words, its not up to me, by right.

id go with the flow, since whatever has happened, is beyond me. not in terms of comprehendibility, but rather, in terms of consequentiality.

whatever happens, good or bad, ill take it like a man, and walk towards the sunset, with no regrets.

to put it simply, i shall no longer put any much more thought into this.

"cognitive schemata" -
stereotypes : predictive generalisations about something or someone,
(be it through social influence, or personal pre-emptive thoughts)